5 Things I Have Learned in 2016 + Happy New Year 2017


2016 is year full of ups and downs in my life. I've been through things that I have never thought it would happen in our life, yet it happened. However, of how and what and why it happens, those things has been make me become stronger person day by day, and I'm feel grateful for that.
Let me summarize of what have I learned in 2016.

Patience is the Key

As cliche as it sounds, you have to be patience, if you want things to be right. I know its hard, I know it take a lot of our energy to be patience enough for whatever things happen to you, but you have to remind yourself, be patience, things will be alright, but of course, you have to put an effort in that as well.

Let Go 

Do not hold things, that were not meant to be yours, instead, let them free, let them go. If you have to think about you, yourself before anyone else. Easy to said, but its hard to do it, but, the thing is you have to force yourself, that's all. I have been there and I know how it feels. I don't want myself to stay in the same spot and sad over things that never meant to be mine, I want myself to find happiness and see things I didn't see before, hence, let go.

To Not Be Afraid

Don't be afraid to try new things. I have a low self esteem before that I'm afraid to even try new things, to snatch the chance that been given to me, to even have a conversation(to shy to talk!), and I made up my mind, to not be afraid anymore. Enough is enough, its time for me to shine.


You know to find a friend that understand you, be there during your ups and downs, its never easy but once you've found them, cherish them forever in your life, because you may not find the same person who can stay by your side like them again. In this sense, remove the people who just bring nothing but toxic in your life.

Be Happy and Stay Positive

All I want myself to always be happy, even how hard the situation I will be in, I'm going to slay them down and be happy! Also, to always remind myself to be positive and positive and positive, remove those whatever negative thought that's going to hit me.

There are more things, I want to share but that will be way too long, hence, only the important things that I've share with you. Of whatever happened to you before, let's take that as lesson learned.


No matter how hard it is, you can get through it! You know you can do it! Always motivate your own self by saying positive things. Anyway, May 2017 will be bring more joy, happiness, rezeki  and most of all, May ALLAH SWT shower us with good health, and countless blessings on me, my family and all of you.

Anyway, Happy New Year! 🎆



Niqqy said…
happy new year fatina :D
Razanah Anis said…
Lots of things happened and lesson learnt.. :D
Happy new year to you... :3
Siqah Hussin said…
Happy new year fatina :) Semoga tahun ni lebih sukses daripada tahun sebelumnya <3
FatinaMdzfr said…
Happy New Year, Niqqy :)
FatinaMdzfr said…
Happy New Year, Razanah :)
FatinaMdzfr said…
Happy new Year, Siqah :)
Insha Allah, amin ya rabbal al amin :) Semoga tahun ni lebih sukses buat Siqah juga! <3
bivichan (BV) said…
so many things we learnt in 2016, hopefully 2017 will be a good year for all of us. fightingg! :3
happy new year fatina :)
nadiah izzaty said…
Oh dear this is such a motivational post . I really needed all of this for 2017 . Most of all be patience and stay positive . Me and my team having a hard time recently until don't know when . *nangis*

Thanks for sharing this dear . 😍
Eyqa Zq said…
Happy new year and may Allah blessed you always fatina <3
Hanis Amanina said…
Yes, it's time for you and me to shine :D Grab all opportunities that we are offered to, push away all unsure feelings, not confident etc.

Anyway, Fatin, I found this and looks like it may be interesting to you :D

FatinaMdzfr said…
Aja aja fighting! :D
Happy New Year, BV! <3
FatinaMdzfr said…
Your welcome, Nadiah <3
Hopefully, Nadiah and your team will get through all the struggles together and be strong, okay? *give you a big hug* :D
FatinaMdzfr said…
Happy New Year and May Allah bless you always too, Eyqa! <3
FatinaMdzfr said…
Thank you for the supports, Hanis! I really need it <3
wow! This sounds interesting! Thank you sharing, Hanis :D
nadiah izzaty said…
Thank youuuu *hug hug*
Maria said…
I hope you have a wonderful 2017!

FatinaMdzfr said…
You too, have a wonderful 2017! :)
Claudia Claudy said…
Happy New Year Fatin! :D
FatinaMdzfr said…
Happy New Year, Claudy! :D